Troy Dizon Dating Review

Hey guys, this is Spunk reporting in from the sunny island of singapore. a little background about me since this is my first post:

I’m currently 21 years old this year, currently in the National Service. my background with women – had always been ending up in the “lets just be friends zone” during my school years. Never had a long term relationship before (although girls always tell me that i will make a perfect boyfriend, which sounds totally bullshit to me). got to know of “The Game” about a year back, but i never really did anything about it until like this year, after attending some seminars held by troy, xavier, and hanging out with the crew guys like Val and Jiron, that i’ve decided to get this aspect of my life handled. I want to be THAT guy that all the girls craved and all the guys want to be. Got myself CoC only like about 2 weeks back – and look at what i’ve gotten myself into, lol. so, here goes.

2 weeks back when I was having fun on the dance floor with one of my homies, this group of mixed set (Chinese Chick, Aussie Girl, Pinoy Girl & Gay Guy) came on the dance floor to party. seeing that GG was giving most of his attention to CC, I decided to jump right in the set to ‘rescue’ cute AG and PG from boredom. switching between fun and sexual vibes, leading the dance, sexual stare downs, steady eye contacts – was basically how it went down on the dance floor for both the girls. Knowing that i had to take things to the next level, I tried to go in for a makeout with the AG (my target). however, I got denied of that and after which, things just went downhill from there. since the mood was getting stagnant, i decided to leave the venue and call it a day (lead or leave). On my way back home, I actually got a text saying:
“hey, we danced back in the club, you were hot, AG”. i actually got number closed by the AG after leaving the venue (which i was lucky as my homie stayed around). i foreshadowed for our next meet sexually, by letting her know that things will be taken to the next level.

a week later, we met up again in the same club (despite the fact that she told me she wasn’t coming down and she showed up nevertheless) and this time, the dance with her was further sexualized compared to the first one (jiron gave me some valuable tips on that). however, when going for the makeout, i failed AGAIN! this pissed me off (which took out the fun vibe in me) and i was wondering wth i was not doing right. when her gang were chilling at the smoking area, i went in and tried to pull her away from her friends instead of making allies with all of them (at that point of them which i didn’t realize at all). as you guys guessed it – i went home empty handed again, thinking that all hopes were lost.

so, 2 days back, I was back in the same club rolling with the new crew (TDD MC BATCH!). having dropped a simple text to her during the midweek to let her know that I’ll be there, i told myself that i was there to enjoy myself and will not let ANYTHING else affect me (it’s either i DO (have fun there) or DIE (leave feeling unhappy)). The music that night was awesome, the crowd was crazy, right when everyone was rocking to the live band, i saw my target with her friends across the dance floor. this time, since i already had dance floor LoS on us (james, jiron and me were surrounded by like 3 different groups of girls), i decided to taunt her across the dance floor by motioning to her to get to me (which she eventually did, although not immediately). during that period, a creepy indian mofo popped up beside me, and was just standing on the dance floor, literally staring at this cute indian girl who was dancing in front of me. seeing how freaked out her group and her was, I jumped in right in between the girl and the mofo, creating a barrier between them and edged the ladies to HAVE FUN. The moment I did that, the ladies cheer in joy and I went on to dance with the indian girl that I “saved” (imagine the amount of LoS i got LOL). after that set left the dance floor, i went back to look for AG and we got down to the dance. it wasn’t entirely smooth sailing there but eventually, we made out on the dance floor (her friends weren’t around at that time). After which i pulled her out of the club to a quiet spot where we made out even more.
me: “you know what, it’s uncomfortable here, lets go over to your place” her: “alright”
And the rest was history…

Things that I’ve learned from this:

1. WOMEN WANT MEN (got to nail this mindset down, even if they seem like they didn’t want it, come on, they really do)
2. Girls do not want to look easy (up till the point when i was making out with her on her bed, she kept telling me she’s not gonna have sex with me – of course she wants it!)
3. Handle her friends, make them your ALLIES, when they like you enough, they will leave you alone.
4. Do not get affected by their reactions (I AM THE ROCK SOLID, 24/7 ATTRACTIVE MAN)
5. DO OR DIE!!! (CoC 7 is fucking awesome)

Thanks to my crew (TDD MC batch – james ken derrick wilson), being there and out in the field made a difference, jiron who has been mentoring me closely, val who taught me how to move on the dance floor, xav for his workshops (this guy’s my fucking role model, just that we don’t hang out enough, damn!) and Troy of course (need i say more?)

This is only the beginning guys…

Signing off
Victor / Spunk

TEDDIE’S P.I. REVIEW

Hey guys!

I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to write this review. Troy and his crew woke me up to so many things in late July that I’d found it overwhelming to write something that could do them justice. Then yesterday it hit me: I’d been thinking LINEARLY about it instead of just SPEAKING MY MIND like I normally would (and like I picked up from Troy at the beginning of the year) when I’m not putting any pressure on myself. Looking back, everything I went after without thinking too much about what order it was in always got more done in a shorter amount of time than when I’d make things too complicated. NON-LINEAR BABY! And when it comes down to it, nothing I write could ever do these guys justice. TDD is just that good.

Simply put: I GOT MY ASS HANDED TO ME.

This is what I paid for: an honest assessment of my current life situation, where I’m going with it, and what I can do NOW to improve upon it. And this is exactly what I got and more. IN SPADES.

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Friday, July 24th

We meet at the Sheraton. Of the many things covered and reviewed on the first day, having Troy show me what it looks like to switch from Fun to Dominant vibes was key. Then that night we headed to Six Lounge where Troy taught me some basic skills through application and revelation. In order to show me some of the effects of LOS (Line-of-Sight), Troy had me approach a hot chick telling her I need to get some dance practice in. And there ya go: I was dancing with one of the hottest and clearly the most energetic girl on the roof. While we were dancing, Troy stealthily passed by on his phone yelling “HIGHPOINT! HIGHPOINT!” and I totally missed it! At first I couldn’t hear him and then when I realized what was going on it was overkill. At the time, I didn’t know it could happen so fast. It was the time for a slightly bigger lead or even a kiss. I had no clue. But in the end, no other guy did that. Everyone saw it. LOS was working for me. Later one of the bartenders even said she liked how I just jumped in there.

Here Troy also taught me about reading the vibe of the room, looking for where the energy flows. Upon approaching a few more groups of standing and seated women, Troy had me read the vibe of each girl to see which one wanted me the most. This was something I hadn’t looked for or thought of before either, but now it’s something I can’t help but see whenever I talk to a group of women and people in general. As the weekend went on, creating space by stepping back also became more second nature. When we went back inside, I also learned that apparently I walk like an old man! Troy had my walk across the room and back, and I couldn’t help but laugh when it was clear that no one was looking. I gotta admit it was kinda funny, but DAMN!!!!!

But then the BIGGEST lesson I learned this night… and part of me is afraid to admit it publicly… is that I outright disrespected Troy in front of a girl, making her disrespect him, and all before I even realized what had happened. Troy was ready to give me my money back and send me home! I DIDN’T KNOW! I just said something I thought was funny without any ill intentions. I didn’t know I was being a bitch! (Unfortunately, the next night in Dallas I was being a smartass again out of habit, Timmy actually noticed it and pointed it out to me, and Aaron just solidified their advice.) I had no idea it was that big a deal, but I’m glad it was brought out in the open. Turns out this was a nature of behavior I’d cultivated within my circles of guy friends for years. I grew up in harsh humor from my family and friends, and I just thought that’s how family treats each other. In my attempt to treat Troy like a “true bro” and how I talk with any of my other bros, I actually made him look bad in front of a girl. This is NOT how bros treat each other. Not QUALITY bros.

Anyway I’m jumping ahead… as later that Friday night, Troy gets a call from Aaron and gives me the option to either stay in Austin or head to Dallas to meet up with Aaron and Timmy, and I thought this was an opportunity I could not pass up!

Saturday, July 25th

Ahhh… the drive to Dallas. After hours upon hours of life lessons and what seemed to be the longest and most revealing verbal beatdown of my life, I got to meet Aaron and see what a REAL bachelor pad looks like. And I swear, from walking in, noticing the cheezily romantic curtain in the distance… to realizing it drapes over his bed in front of the sunny balcony, tapestry on the wall, candles, dimmers, a guitar, a bed in the living room with 500-thread count sheets and minimal furniture… any girl who walks into here is FUCKED. LOL! I know what I’m looking for the next time I’m in the market for a one-bedroom/ studio apartment!  Aaron also had some great, specific tips on posture and overall swagger and learning to channel your best self at all times. Since the PI, I’ve actually pinpointed how high-energy and magnetic I am with one of the jobs I enjoy doing, and I’m learning more and more about how to be that guy 24/7. It’s positively and consistently changed the way I am with my friends and how I carry myself in my other jobs as well as various social situations.

This night was more of the last. More intensive, more approaches, but also more fun. We started off at the Kona Grill (where Timmy ended up correcting me on my bad unbrotherly habit) with Happy Hour sushi, dumplings, sake bombs, more lessons, and went on to hit up some venues. By this time, creating space was second nature, and approaching women with men turned out to be fun and funny! Here you could clearly see how open and sociable it was around 10pm, and then you could see it pack more and more by the half hour. Still reading the vibes of the crowd and seeing how the energy picks up. Aaron showed me some basic dance moves that Troy showed him long ago to get him started, and now this guy’s got a style all his own. Now you wouldn’t think it at first glance… but Aaron Dan is SICK on the dance floor! SO SMOOTH. Making my ’rounds about the venue, I saw him meet and dance with a Latina chick. No words. Just feeling, touching, giving space, breaking contact, spinning, and biting.  Ya had to be there. He was late to debrief with me and Troy afterwards ’cause he was too busy setting up some dates for some frozen hot chocolate, lol! This was also the night that I realized how tight knit the TDD Brotherhood is. It made me realize how poorly my friends and I treat each other and how if it doesn’t change, I’d have to build a new crew.

Sunday, July 26th

The next morning was pretty funny. As soon as Troy gains some consciousness, the first thing that pops out of his mouth is: “Teddie you need to work on your VISION MUSCLES!” The guy just wakes up and he’s already back to work!!!!! Hahahhahahaaha!  Furthermore, it was eye-opening to learn that while my life’s meta-gameplan may be far-reaching, it was still blind. I would only go so far with a plan and then that’s it. If I’m going to make a product or DVD, what’s on the cover? What color is it? This is the same attitude I need to create my own bachelor pad as well as other decisions I make in life. What goes on the walls? What color scheme? What material of sheets, curtains? What is your blueprint? Be specific and realistic… with EVERYTHING!

The rest of the day was spent debriefing over lunch, more good times, finding an internet cafe to play “Left 4 Dead,” learning more about sexual escalation from Aaron Dan and more dance moves from Troy, and going to Gold’s Gym to workout, learn some weight training tips, and some basic Jiu-Jitsu. By this time I asked Timmy, “So you guys do this all the time?” And he’s like, “Yeah. All the time.” THIS IS WHAT LIFE SHOULD BE LIKE! What the fuck have I been doing with an employee’s mentality with too much on my plate, almost no sleep, and lots of “fake” fun? I’d just been exposed to a mere fraction of the TDD Lifestyle, and I want more of it!!!!!!!

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Aftermath

Now the thing about working those “Vision Muscles” is… on these long drives between Austin and Dallas, it was blatantly obvious that the flow of my life and current schedule has been horribly inefficient. I basically hold 3 jobs as a barista, teacher, and performing musician and don’t usually get much more than 2-4 hours of sleep a night. BAD BAD BAD for my attitude and energy levels. What’s worse is that I’d been doing this for years! IT’S NO WONDER I had so little energy to keep up with these guys the entire PI. I was already in such a negative state that lots of what Troy would point out was how soft spoken and mumbly I was, not engaging, not powerful at all. All of this was confusing to me considering how different I am when I’m working on the clock and having fun! And then the mere fact that I’ve been thrown into a situation completely outside my element was more of a shock to the system. And then back at home where my overly busy schedule dominated my life… by losing so much sleep, it actually affected my attitude to the point where even my coworkers and bandmates didn’t want to be around me.

NOW WHO ELSE IN THE INDUSTRY WOULD EVER KNOW HOW TO POINT OUT SUCH INEFFICIENCIES IN THE FLOW OF YOUR LIFE???????

Now to be honest, dance clubs aren’t my cup o’tea, but it’s something I could get used to if I devoted more time to it and if it were more relevant to my niche. If nothing else but to become more aware in an arena that puts your senses on overhaul. I’m a musician by trade and the kinds of women I tend to meet aren’t really into dancing. But then again, maybe that’s why lots of them have been boring! HAHA! Since the PI the caliber of women I’ve been meeting has gone up 10-fold, and even more surprising to me is that I don’t really get nervous, even if that means stepping away from making coffee to talk to the hot girl at the condiment bar of my job while everyone else is working.  Not to mention that within the week of my PI, I could stop the hottest girl walking in a bar, make her blush, make the guy who’s BEEN trying to get in her pants for years come over and get creepy protective of her, and on my way out of the bar, she CHASES ME to give me a hug and wants me to come back to the bar sometime (I won’t). 2 weeks after my PI, I took a friend of a friend to a coffee shop for our first hangout and conversation ever, and within the next 2-3 hours she was giving me a BJ in my car (and then in her car). It was all about putting your beliefs out there in an agreeable way, switching vibes, and sensing the highpoint! A week or so later, I go to a bar with another one of my circles and end up making out with one of those girls with a handjob and tits in my face in her car as well. And there are more girls who’re waiting for me to call them to meet up (if I remember to). For some reason… this progress just doesn’t feel fast enough! But it’s still faster and more consistent than anything I’d done before.

The biggest thing I learned from Troy, Aaron, and Timmy all weekend was how quality people treat each other. How fun and good times are enjoyed without a hint of mediocrity. I never ONCE heard these guys tease each other in an overly insulting way, at the detrimental expense of one another, or in front of anyone else. Just PURE POSITIVITY! THIS is how a crew rolls, and I highly doubt there’s anyone else in this industry who can show you what it’s like to live this kind of fun, hustler’s lifestyle. I’ve also introduced my friends to “Left 4 Dead,” got the gym key to my apartment, got back into guitar for fun (I’m a drummer first), and created a much more flowing schedule that allows me to have more rest, peace, and quiet… just enough to fuel the attitude and energy necessary to live it up with my homies! REST IS SO ESSENTIAL! I’ve raised the standards of how my friends and I treat each other. I’ve found more ways to have fun and still be productive.

Mediocrity is a filthy disease. STOP THAT SHIT.

Overall, I just feel like I’m going somewhere again. What could’ve taken years to learn on my own has now been cut down to months (or even weeks), and I’m really excited to see how things turn out for me by next summer, if not the new year!

Thanks Troy, the TDD Crew, and friends!

-Teddie

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MY COC REVIEW – cvag003

Quick History (this gets old, I’ve been there, you’ve heard it before blah blah blah)

Found the community 2007. Had fun learning how to be a chit chat master, however a year later, no real results. Exit. Felt I was getting weirder and less normal.

Had a year outside the community, DETOXING.

Found TDD.
Listened to the podcasts, no bullshit golden nuggets in there. Watched the videos (TDDTV) – dance game is GOLD!

Therefore signed up for CoC. First as a trial. But after the results and changes I started to see, I’m in.

So far I’ve been with 5 girls in the space of 3 months.

Girl 1 – My FB.
Girl 2 – Now ex-gf
Girl 3 – ONS – it was at her birthday party, she liked the gift I gave her haha
Girl 4 – Shes just dying to see me. Its SOO on when I do (CoC 5)
Girl 5 – Current gf
Girl 6 – will see haha

Now specifically how has CoC helped?
Here’s the key bits and pieces I’ve taken from the various CoC episodes.

CoC 3 – online strategies. I’ve tried social networking sites before and given up within weeks. This episode gave me hope. I haven’t pulled off bebo (facebook equivalent) yet but what this episode has taught me is how to present myself attractively. I have just moved over to Australia and only knew one person, my cousin. In the space of 3 months I can easily say I’ve got 10 friends I contact regularly and 20 others that know of me and I of them. I’ve had a real tough time making friends but this podcasts has shown me how to use online to make friends and so forth. How this has helped me is when I meet a chick now, I’ll ask for or give my bebo details and from their, she’ll come onto my page and get to know me there – credibility. The rest is logistics. When I see her again, its on.

CoC 4 – Knowing myself. The biggest thing I took from here is leading and just saying whats on my mind. This has been a huge difficulty for me as I usually downplay myself (thinking I was been humble – underdog mentality). So I’d keep MY opinions to myself. Not anymore. I’ve trained and still am, training myself to just blurt what the fuck I think when I think it. Often the case is, others agree (CoC 5 – small agreements leads to greater ones)

C0C 5 – Direction in conversation. One huge thing for me I’ve taken from this is to have direction. I can talk. Too much often. I reveal all my cards waaayy too early. Now, I say much less. Do more.

All in all, I can’t really pinpoint exactly where TDD has helped me get my results. All I do know is I am getting results. Compared to previously, lets not even go there.

My analogy: Its all in the pot, like a really good soup. I just cant tell the exact ingredients. I must say, the soup is just soo good. Thats all that matters to me =D

I listen to the podcasts to get into the TDD care-free attitude. Listen to the youtube (I converted them) conversations between Troy and Aaron about x=x, presence etc as these remind me of what is KEY. Then after that, blast some music – prepartying, on my way to the boys. And then CoC for more solid frameworks.

On the dance floor, EYE CONTACT! Cheeky grin, then I look away. Next time I see her (she’d gravitate around me) – stare down, circle, taunt, then pull away. She’d come close, I’d pull her in, push her away. Then I’d get back to dancing with whoever I was dancing with first. This is a common pattern I find myself doing on the dancefloor. If I see them off the dancefloor, I may chat.
The common factor I see with the girls I’ve been with/seeing, is that I didn’t say much. Just mundane chitchat that they agreed with. A laugh here and there. BOOM. Next gear, sexualizing the convo. Her lips/laugh/breasts whatever I find sexy. This is where Aarons video about eye contact is just gold. Solid gaze. BOOM – make out.

Previously I’d talk about LIFE. PASSIONS. BULLCRAP. Arghhh. What a waste of time.

What I think now when I see a girl “I ain’t here to get to know you – maybe later, but right now I’m here to hook up”

NOT getting results? You probably ain’t with TDD. At least I wasn’t

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By Adam, Texas

About me:

I’m 24, and several years out of college.  The past couple of years while trying to find a job, I’ve completely put my social life by the wayside, yet now that I have recently found my dream job I’m ready to become that social monster and ladies man that I always wanted to be.  During college I had many great friends by being the warm, friendly gentleman, yet women never really saw me as a potential romantic partner, which was one of the areas I wanted to improve during the PI.  Another huge sticking point for me was being able to have a conversation after meeting a complete stranger and not having it completely fizzle out after about a minute.

Why I Took a PI with Aaron:

I selected Aaron as my instructor because I believed his personality and style would be a great fit or mine, and that certainly was the case.  For weeks before the PI, we talked frequently over the phone, with Aaron gathering details of my life so he could customize the instruction especially to me.  He also lectured over the essential philosophies of TDD for social interactions, so that the actual time spent with him in person could be used most efficiently for instruction on non-verbal techniques.

First Night of the PI:

Our first night out I was completely blown away by what I experienced.  Now during college, I was always a house party type guy and this was my first experience in a night venue, so needless to say when I first arrived I was a little overwhelmed.  In my first interaction I approached in a half-assed way, and I was blown out.  Both Tim and Aaron pointed out that I MUST commit!  From this point, I worked on approaching with a committed vibe while working to further my conversational skills as far as possible.  At first I was having trouble leading conversations, until Aaron pointed out that I should simply concentrate on listening.  This was huge for getting “out of my head”, and in interactions afterwards I made some huge improvements.  The biggest eye-opener was having Aaron right by my side to demonstrate when my interactions started to fizzle out.  He is an absolute beast; he’s more of a natural than someone with contrived game, just a great guy with some killer techniques and non-verbals sprinkled on the side.  This is something that you can not just read about, you just have to have it revealed in the field for it to totally sink in.

Second Night of the PI:

I made huge breakthroughs Saturday night.  A big key for me was by before going out, just getting myself in a nice positive frame mind that “I was going to have fun tonight and meet some new friends.”  After going over dance game, we meet up with Troy at this bar.  After the guys demonstrate using LOS concepts, I approach a bachelorette party and the interaction just went great from there.  After chatting for a good while, I bring Aaron over yet Troy comes in and points out that there are more groups within the group that are just waiting to be approached, so I engage them and after having a great conversations, I leave on the high points.  This breakthrough was huge for me, compared to the point from where I started.  This pretty much got me over the fear I had of talking to women who are complete strangers.  After this we bounced over to a dance club, which was another first-time experience for me.  I practiced the dance-game we worked on, while also having Aaron, Tim, and Troy demonstrate.  Again, seeing these techniques in the field is huge.  Eventually, all the new experiences and the revelations I received, along with being in club environment for the first time became too much, and I felt like I hit a proverbial wall, so we headed out and for our post-night briefing.

Sunday Debrief Session:

On Sunday, Aaron synthesized everything I learned during the weekend, and most importantly, how to build it into my life.  I cannot recommend Aaron highly enough, he’s a proof that you can be more of a low-key, nice, gentleman-type guy and still have amazing success with women by using some basic TDD concepts and having a sexy edge.  Since the PI, I’ve been working on skills in baby-steps, getting into as much social situations as I can find, and I’ve made huge breakthroughs with conversations with strangers.  The next step with me is moving on to escalating interactions with women to a romantic outcome, and I’m getting there.  I would like to point out that this system is best learned by revelation in the field, and if you had ever considered taking some live instruction from TDD, even if you are a complete beginner, then trust me, TAKE THE PLUNGE AND DO IT, it is well worth the cost!

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SKYPE AND PURENIGHT REVIEW – Mr A4

Hi guys

I’ve been taking the Skype Calls, COCs and PureNight lessons from Troy himself. I am Tuan’s older brother. At first when Tuan told me that he had spent a good amount of sum to learn some tricks of the dating trade… I was very skeptical. I thought to myself, his brother or his dad could teach him a thing or two there. But when Tuan has something he sets his focus to, there’s no stopping him.

So a few months later, you all know who Tuan is. He’s the guy who is making things happening for himself. The big kid on the block now! While he was enjoying his life in Japan, I was going through some tough times myself. Hard broken 3 year relationship ended due to her cheating on me (caught red handed) and too bitter to go out and look for new girls.

But I knew what’s up and I had to make some big changes. They weren’t easy. I was 180+ lbs at the beginning of May and now I’m around 164 lbs. Started to get out of my safety zone, but kept seeing the repeated failures of the past. The mystery method I am so keen to call it right now… the hovering oh man you name it.

Obviously, my brother wouldn’t let me continue this route since he had seen the light from Troy! So he let me in on some tidbits on what I should try out when I start up a conversation (COC5). Very good material… being able to not hesitant and say what’s on everybody’s mind is an easy win.

After being so hyped up about it, Tuan introduced me to Troy over the phone. It was a good time and he invited me to get the Skype Call and PureNight going down.

Let me say, there are some big results after I had my first Skype call. Before my first Skype call I didn’t know what the heck my problem was. No one was pointing it out and I was obviously falling in the same sand traps. Troy told me to not give a shit about what anyone says but to do what I want to do and say. Go with my gut feeling…

Damn I did and so right after that call I hit up one girl who had just added me on Facebook and lives real close to me here in California. The day before I was using emotes and asking questions about how is life and how is the cat and how are your parents. Man stupid shit! But right after the phone call with Troy, she started to do that stuff where she tries to get me into talking about WHAT SHE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT. I stopped myself and said, “What do I want to come out of this friendship with me and her?” So I stopped everything she said with a

[22:13] Mr A4: You know, I think you’re cute and I want to take you out sometime.

Bam, right after I close with swift and safe exit. I leave it so she can think about what I said.

Then after that I used the PureNight + Conversation Skills + 1ST Skype Call to make it sexual and talk about what I want. She’s coming into my life, not me into hers. Each passing day was like working the body (in boxing), and each day passing day she would be anxious to message me and see what I was up to or what I was doing.

It was mad easy, she was hooked so fast that she said this the the day before I was going to see her.

Mr A4: I think I got sick last night. My bro and I are going to hang out with dad since it’s his last day here.
The Girl: wtf no.
Mr A4: I need body warmth to make me feel better. Feeling cold.
The Girl: take vitamin c, because I want to make out

This was the day before we meet, damn. Just damn, in the bag. I had my facebook do all the talking and the talk over the phone… man it was easy. SO EASY! All of Troy’s training methods are additive to whatever you’ve learned before with him.

Lets just say I just finished watching a movie at my place that I didn’t even get a chance to watch… that long movie the watchman haha.

I know this is just one case scenario but I am definitely not stopping here. Troy you are the man. Give this guy a medal!

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FROM PUA TO A REAL MAN

So, this my experience with Troy Dizon

Background: I am 24 years old and until last month I had never even kissed a girl. Growing up I never had any girlfriends. In fact, my friends would try to hook me up and the girls would reveal to them that I was repulsive. However, there were a few times when an occasional girl hit on me, but I was so socially stupid I couldn’t do anything about it. So, I went through jr. high, high school, and my first years of college with no girlfriend(s) and an ever decreasing number and quality of friends. Even to my family I seemed a lost cause. Then, about 2 years ago, I found the community while randomly surfing the internet. Like most people, I started with DYD. Since I didn’t know ANYTHING about socializing in general, much less women, I thought everything D.D.A. said was unquestionably true. So, I went out to the local grocery stores and busted out a couple of CNF lines fully confident they would work and for the first time in my life what came out of my mouth actually made women laugh and want to talk to me more. So, I figured the community was the real deal. I studied DYD religiously and started doing more approaches and gaining confidence. However, my success didn’t last long. My CNF and DYD teachings began pissing off everyone I came in contact with. So, I started reading MM, RSD, Pick Up 101, but still no improvement (I don’t blame them I probably wasn’t executing their teachings correctly).

Discovering Troy: Awaiting more success, I devoured the ebooks and read different seduction blogs by the end of the next week, studying and preplanning day and night. Ironically, as with my experience with DYD, everything went down hill from there. Unknowingly, I started sounding very mechanical, fake, and my calibration sunk to very low levels. However, from my past success with the method, I knew it was just me that was not executing it correctly. So a little over ½ a year later, I talked to Troy and signed up for private instruction with him. Logistics at the time did not let me sign up for the 3 day boot camp, as did some beliefs I had, so I asked Troy to come to my town (I was to pay his lodging, travel, and food expenses), which was only 3 hours away from where he lives. He agreed, which surprised me because I had never heard of a coach who did so much to help out a client. So, that said a lot about what type of guy he is. The guy was so energetic, charismatic, and just pumped me with enthusiasm. He gave me a couple of free phone coaching sessions and preps before the big day. Then it happened, I met them both and got to see the his concepts fleshed out: the powerful vibe, leading, presence, etc. I’d say the difference between reading the blogs and seeing this guy in person was the difference between night and day. I learned a ton by just watching how he carried himself, how he treated me, how he talked, body language, etc. However, I am not sure if it was because of my stage fright or because I was a plain pussy, but whatever the reason, I ended up chickening out of most approaches and had him do almost all of them to demonstrate to me.

In essence, seeing Troy in action was watching a Picasso. The guy demonstrated solid game set after set. He single handedly completely took over all sets he approached and both girls and guys loved them. To this day I have not met anyone with the same or more charisma than Troy. Just about every person he and his entourage came in contact with melted before my eyes. It was like magic. From the first set they did I knew they were the real deal. So, I just watched and soaked in as much of their energy level, vibe, the way he interacted with people, and everything I could learn from him.

Admittedly, however, I was a bit disappointed. I knew I had learned a lot and that the knowledge and experience would one day at least leak into my game, but I was frustrated that that was all I got out of a boot camp that cost me nearly $2,000. So, after much thinking (little approaching) and frustration Troy called me up about a week later to see what was up with me. That surprised me in a good way. I thought he was like the rest of the marketers who just get your money and forget about you, but by freely phone coaching me that time, he proved otherwise. He started picking my brain more and role playing with me to figure out what was so wrong with me. Within that session, he started really finding my main sticking points. Up until then he had given me 3 free phone coaching sessions so I signed up for a fourth. That one was the golden one. We role played for like an hour an identified my main sticking points that were holding me back from success, mainly too much verbiage, playing too much by the rule book which prevented me from being in the moment and interpreting situations correctly, and not listening to people. That session, coupled with reading his blogs more closely resulted in a giant leap to success. I suddenly found myself being able to actually hold more interesting conversations with people and expressing my self better. That was such a relief – to finally be able to talk to people for more than 5 minutes (lol). However, as much of a break through as that was, I still knew I was missing something. I knew I did not fully understand the stuff Troy taught me since day one, but I couldn’t figure out what. With the hunger to succeed, trying to find clarity, Troy’s phone coaching and actually implementing the game plan we had talked about, my success with people then sky rocketed to levels I couldn’t previously imagine I would ever reach. I started reading people’s social situation, meaning behind their words, voice tonality, facial expressions, body language, etc. and started having massive success with people in general. From that listening skill, I developed super charged conversations that instantly connected me to people. All these amazing social skills I didn’t even previously know I had in me came out of me without my consent. For the first time ever, I started having conversations where I didn’t even have to worry about running out of things to say and I experienced what real genuine interest, emotional connections, confidence, leading, escalation, and everything else Troy teaches really is. So, since then my task has been to just practice and hone those skills more. Right now I have 2 girlfriends but meet new women and friends all the time. It has gotten to the point where I worry more about how to get rid of extra people in my life and keep only the best than about getting. I literally had and have to get rid of women and guy friends all the time because I don’t have time for all of them!

Mainly that is my experience with Troy, but these are some of the main lessons I want you to get out of it:

Strict adherence to ebooks and rules can be one of the main obstacles to one’s social skills. They will prevent you from being in the moment and will not allow you to calibrate your unique self and the unique situations you will always find your self in.

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PRIVATE INSTRUCTION WITH TROY by Kojones

To tell the truth, I was kind of freaked out about meeting Troy for the first time. I listened to his podcasts and read his posts. Some of the private instruction reviews on him scared me. I expected him to be a PUA drill sergeant (ie. “Did I teach you to do that sh*t? ! Did I?!”) I almost wanted to back out. But I’m glad I didn’t.

Turns out Troy is just a regular guy, and easy to talk to. He’s a good listener. Obviously he has keen insight into human behavior and boundless energy. My instruction was held in a pad which overlooked the bay in San Francisco. This was Troy’s friend’s place. It was private. That made it easier to talk about my goals and experiences. I was impressed that Troy’s friend (whose pad it was) was in a healthy committed relationship with a quality woman. In other words, Troy’s friends were not all player-types. That made an impression on me.

Troy talked to me about my goals, got a sense of who I was, and then started fixing me – my posture, my movements, my clothes, etc. As we prepared for night game, he drilled me on how to lead, how to kino, how to escalate, and the logistics of club game. I took tons of notes. Then I went back to my hotel to rest, and to prepare for the night ahead. I was nervous. Night game scares me.

It’s been said before that Troy is the real deal. He lives what he preaches. In the club, he did real approaches. And he didn’t just do the easy sets, either: He did the hard sets, dealing with the sh*t tests. He took a stripper by the hand, snagged her from the couch where she was sitting next to her boyfriend, and danced with her in the middle of the floor, social-proofing the room. He swung her around, grinded, and then returned her to her owner, a handsome guy who looked like he stepped out of a GQ cover. This expanded my idea of what was possible. It also taught me strategy: He danced with the eye candy and built social proof in a matter of seconds.

Some of the stuff that Troy teaches about night game you will never find in the JM ebook or anywhere else. It’s stuff that he learned through trial and error in the field. I love JM but some of the stuff won’t work in noisy club environments. It was fun walking through the club with Troy while he dissected everything going on.

Imagine walking with Morpheus through a noisy club while he freeze frames and says, “Do you see it Neo? Do you understand? This guy with the cowboy hat is about to get blown out because he is hovering and doesn’t have the balls to sit his ass down. That girl over there in the three-set is the weakest link because she’s not engaged in the conversation. And the entire room is about to become ours because the strippers are with us.” Walking through a club with Troy’s mind racing and dissecting everything in sight was an eye-opening experience for me. I’ll never look at a club in the same way anymore.

I opened a girl sitting on a couch at Troy’s suggestion and sat down next to her. She wasn’t the kind of girl I expected to meet in a club – just a down-to-earth girl from a small town in North Carolina. Later I opened a two-set that Troy had softened up earlier. Troy taught me how to properly run a two-set without a wing, which was eye-opening for me.

While on this topic, I’ll say that the PUA body of knowledge is constantly changing, as girls become socialized by so many approach artists. Girls have become wise to traditional wing tactics. Troy knows this. He blasts through the pretense of traditional pickup. How many sets have been blown because the wings always come in at the same time and always says the same stupid thing?

The most important lesson for me was learning how to lead. I moved a two-set around the venue. Later, I took a girl by the hand and led her downstairs and danced with her. It was awesome. I did Troy’s patented dance move and couldn’t believe I was doing it. I’m scared to death of free form dancing, but I actually had fun. The main thing is that I learned it is not as hard as I thought. It’s a skill that can be learned.

The next day, Troy gave me some good pointers on crib design and crib logistics. We also talked at length about Facebook design. This was big. I’d never given much thought about how my Facebook page was set up and maintained. Troy distilled this down to a science. Now I manage my Facebook page like a PR campaign.

I’m an older guy, 39. I’m interested in women, but that’s no longer the only thing. On some level, pickup is about designing a life to bring women into. Troy taught me about attracting other things into my life: quality people, business, money, etc. He talked about engineering a life that is fun 24/7, so that pickup is not just a role that you play. As you go about your life, you are the party. After sarging at the club, I hung out with Troy and his crew at a diner. Troy surrounds himself with quality guys, real guys. We swapped stories and chatted about developing skill, life lessons, adventures, and of course, women. This might sound weird, but it’s the first time I’ve ever had fun hanging out with guys.

Troy savors every moment of the day and is enthusiastic about the little things in his life (like his new iPod game) and the big things (like his LTR). This was the lesson I walked away with: how to live my life. The game can never be bigger than the way we live our lives. And the way we live our lives ultimately will determine the quality of women that are drawn to us.

RESULTS:

When I returned to my small hometown, I opened a cute Asian girl in the Laundromat, late one night. I practiced physical leading and we ended up salsa dancing while our laundry dried. A week later, I was approached by an exotic brunette in my gym who thought I was the dance instructor. I didn’t let her leave, though. I practiced physical compliance and got her to demonstrate her capoeira moves on the dance floor. Then I number closed her. Last night I found myself drinking wine in her bedroom. In two weeks I will fly to Dubai to be with my beautiful Russian babe to greet the New Year. I love this life.

I’m thankful I was able to take private instruction with Troy. Wish I could have spent more time with him. I had a lot more questions. I’ve met some amazing women this year. And I know this is just the beginning.

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ONE WEEK IN: LAID – club_boy