MY COC REVIEW – cvag003
Quick History (this gets old, I’ve been there, you’ve heard it before blah blah blah)
Found the community 2007. Had fun learning how to be a chit chat master, however a year later, no real results. Exit. Felt I was getting weirder and less normal.
Had a year outside the community, DETOXING.
Found TDD.
Listened to the podcasts, no bullshit golden nuggets in there. Watched the videos (TDDTV) – dance game is GOLD!
Therefore signed up for CoC. First as a trial. But after the results and changes I started to see, I’m in.
So far I’ve been with 5 girls in the space of 3 months.
Girl 1 – My FB.
Girl 2 – Now ex-gf
Girl 3 – ONS – it was at her birthday party, she liked the gift I gave her haha
Girl 4 – Shes just dying to see me. Its SOO on when I do (CoC 5)
Girl 5 – Current gf
Girl 6 – will see haha
Now specifically how has CoC helped?
Here’s the key bits and pieces I’ve taken from the various CoC episodes.
CoC 3 – online strategies. I’ve tried social networking sites before and given up within weeks. This episode gave me hope. I haven’t pulled off bebo (facebook equivalent) yet but what this episode has taught me is how to present myself attractively. I have just moved over to Australia and only knew one person, my cousin. In the space of 3 months I can easily say I’ve got 10 friends I contact regularly and 20 others that know of me and I of them. I’ve had a real tough time making friends but this podcasts has shown me how to use online to make friends and so forth. How this has helped me is when I meet a chick now, I’ll ask for or give my bebo details and from their, she’ll come onto my page and get to know me there – credibility. The rest is logistics. When I see her again, its on.
CoC 4 – Knowing myself. The biggest thing I took from here is leading and just saying whats on my mind. This has been a huge difficulty for me as I usually downplay myself (thinking I was been humble – underdog mentality). So I’d keep MY opinions to myself. Not anymore. I’ve trained and still am, training myself to just blurt what the fuck I think when I think it. Often the case is, others agree (CoC 5 – small agreements leads to greater ones)
C0C 5 – Direction in conversation. One huge thing for me I’ve taken from this is to have direction. I can talk. Too much often. I reveal all my cards waaayy too early. Now, I say much less. Do more.
All in all, I can’t really pinpoint exactly where TDD has helped me get my results. All I do know is I am getting results. Compared to previously, lets not even go there.
My analogy: Its all in the pot, like a really good soup. I just cant tell the exact ingredients. I must say, the soup is just soo good. Thats all that matters to me =D
I listen to the podcasts to get into the TDD care-free attitude. Listen to the youtube (I converted them) conversations between Troy and Aaron about x=x, presence etc as these remind me of what is KEY. Then after that, blast some music – prepartying, on my way to the boys. And then CoC for more solid frameworks.
On the dance floor, EYE CONTACT! Cheeky grin, then I look away. Next time I see her (she’d gravitate around me) – stare down, circle, taunt, then pull away. She’d come close, I’d pull her in, push her away. Then I’d get back to dancing with whoever I was dancing with first. This is a common pattern I find myself doing on the dancefloor. If I see them off the dancefloor, I may chat.
The common factor I see with the girls I’ve been with/seeing, is that I didn’t say much. Just mundane chitchat that they agreed with. A laugh here and there. BOOM. Next gear, sexualizing the convo. Her lips/laugh/breasts whatever I find sexy. This is where Aarons video about eye contact is just gold. Solid gaze. BOOM – make out.
Previously I’d talk about LIFE. PASSIONS. BULLCRAP. Arghhh. What a waste of time.
What I think now when I see a girl “I ain’t here to get to know you – maybe later, but right now I’m here to hook up”
NOT getting results? You probably ain’t with TDD. At least I wasn’t
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