Troy Dizon Dating Review

Hey guys, this is Spunk reporting in from the sunny island of singapore. a little background about me since this is my first post:

I’m currently 21 years old this year, currently in the National Service. my background with women – had always been ending up in the “lets just be friends zone” during my school years. Never had a long term relationship before (although girls always tell me that i will make a perfect boyfriend, which sounds totally bullshit to me). got to know of “The Game” about a year back, but i never really did anything about it until like this year, after attending some seminars held by troy, xavier, and hanging out with the crew guys like Val and Jiron, that i’ve decided to get this aspect of my life handled. I want to be THAT guy that all the girls craved and all the guys want to be. Got myself CoC only like about 2 weeks back – and look at what i’ve gotten myself into, lol. so, here goes.

2 weeks back when I was having fun on the dance floor with one of my homies, this group of mixed set (Chinese Chick, Aussie Girl, Pinoy Girl & Gay Guy) came on the dance floor to party. seeing that GG was giving most of his attention to CC, I decided to jump right in the set to ‘rescue’ cute AG and PG from boredom. switching between fun and sexual vibes, leading the dance, sexual stare downs, steady eye contacts – was basically how it went down on the dance floor for both the girls. Knowing that i had to take things to the next level, I tried to go in for a makeout with the AG (my target). however, I got denied of that and after which, things just went downhill from there. since the mood was getting stagnant, i decided to leave the venue and call it a day (lead or leave). On my way back home, I actually got a text saying:
“hey, we danced back in the club, you were hot, AG”. i actually got number closed by the AG after leaving the venue (which i was lucky as my homie stayed around). i foreshadowed for our next meet sexually, by letting her know that things will be taken to the next level.

a week later, we met up again in the same club (despite the fact that she told me she wasn’t coming down and she showed up nevertheless) and this time, the dance with her was further sexualized compared to the first one (jiron gave me some valuable tips on that). however, when going for the makeout, i failed AGAIN! this pissed me off (which took out the fun vibe in me) and i was wondering wth i was not doing right. when her gang were chilling at the smoking area, i went in and tried to pull her away from her friends instead of making allies with all of them (at that point of them which i didn’t realize at all). as you guys guessed it – i went home empty handed again, thinking that all hopes were lost.

so, 2 days back, I was back in the same club rolling with the new crew (TDD MC BATCH!). having dropped a simple text to her during the midweek to let her know that I’ll be there, i told myself that i was there to enjoy myself and will not let ANYTHING else affect me (it’s either i DO (have fun there) or DIE (leave feeling unhappy)). The music that night was awesome, the crowd was crazy, right when everyone was rocking to the live band, i saw my target with her friends across the dance floor. this time, since i already had dance floor LoS on us (james, jiron and me were surrounded by like 3 different groups of girls), i decided to taunt her across the dance floor by motioning to her to get to me (which she eventually did, although not immediately). during that period, a creepy indian mofo popped up beside me, and was just standing on the dance floor, literally staring at this cute indian girl who was dancing in front of me. seeing how freaked out her group and her was, I jumped in right in between the girl and the mofo, creating a barrier between them and edged the ladies to HAVE FUN. The moment I did that, the ladies cheer in joy and I went on to dance with the indian girl that I “saved” (imagine the amount of LoS i got LOL). after that set left the dance floor, i went back to look for AG and we got down to the dance. it wasn’t entirely smooth sailing there but eventually, we made out on the dance floor (her friends weren’t around at that time). After which i pulled her out of the club to a quiet spot where we made out even more.
me: “you know what, it’s uncomfortable here, lets go over to your place” her: “alright”
And the rest was history…

Things that I’ve learned from this:

1. WOMEN WANT MEN (got to nail this mindset down, even if they seem like they didn’t want it, come on, they really do)
2. Girls do not want to look easy (up till the point when i was making out with her on her bed, she kept telling me she’s not gonna have sex with me – of course she wants it!)
3. Handle her friends, make them your ALLIES, when they like you enough, they will leave you alone.
4. Do not get affected by their reactions (I AM THE ROCK SOLID, 24/7 ATTRACTIVE MAN)
5. DO OR DIE!!! (CoC 7 is fucking awesome)

Thanks to my crew (TDD MC batch – james ken derrick wilson), being there and out in the field made a difference, jiron who has been mentoring me closely, val who taught me how to move on the dance floor, xav for his workshops (this guy’s my fucking role model, just that we don’t hang out enough, damn!) and Troy of course (need i say more?)

This is only the beginning guys…

Signing off
Victor / Spunk

MY COC REVIEW – cvag003

Quick History (this gets old, I’ve been there, you’ve heard it before blah blah blah)

Found the community 2007. Had fun learning how to be a chit chat master, however a year later, no real results. Exit. Felt I was getting weirder and less normal.

Had a year outside the community, DETOXING.

Found TDD.
Listened to the podcasts, no bullshit golden nuggets in there. Watched the videos (TDDTV) – dance game is GOLD!

Therefore signed up for CoC. First as a trial. But after the results and changes I started to see, I’m in.

So far I’ve been with 5 girls in the space of 3 months.

Girl 1 – My FB.
Girl 2 – Now ex-gf
Girl 3 – ONS – it was at her birthday party, she liked the gift I gave her haha
Girl 4 – Shes just dying to see me. Its SOO on when I do (CoC 5)
Girl 5 – Current gf
Girl 6 – will see haha

Now specifically how has CoC helped?
Here’s the key bits and pieces I’ve taken from the various CoC episodes.

CoC 3 – online strategies. I’ve tried social networking sites before and given up within weeks. This episode gave me hope. I haven’t pulled off bebo (facebook equivalent) yet but what this episode has taught me is how to present myself attractively. I have just moved over to Australia and only knew one person, my cousin. In the space of 3 months I can easily say I’ve got 10 friends I contact regularly and 20 others that know of me and I of them. I’ve had a real tough time making friends but this podcasts has shown me how to use online to make friends and so forth. How this has helped me is when I meet a chick now, I’ll ask for or give my bebo details and from their, she’ll come onto my page and get to know me there – credibility. The rest is logistics. When I see her again, its on.

CoC 4 – Knowing myself. The biggest thing I took from here is leading and just saying whats on my mind. This has been a huge difficulty for me as I usually downplay myself (thinking I was been humble – underdog mentality). So I’d keep MY opinions to myself. Not anymore. I’ve trained and still am, training myself to just blurt what the fuck I think when I think it. Often the case is, others agree (CoC 5 – small agreements leads to greater ones)

C0C 5 – Direction in conversation. One huge thing for me I’ve taken from this is to have direction. I can talk. Too much often. I reveal all my cards waaayy too early. Now, I say much less. Do more.

All in all, I can’t really pinpoint exactly where TDD has helped me get my results. All I do know is I am getting results. Compared to previously, lets not even go there.

My analogy: Its all in the pot, like a really good soup. I just cant tell the exact ingredients. I must say, the soup is just soo good. Thats all that matters to me =D

I listen to the podcasts to get into the TDD care-free attitude. Listen to the youtube (I converted them) conversations between Troy and Aaron about x=x, presence etc as these remind me of what is KEY. Then after that, blast some music – prepartying, on my way to the boys. And then CoC for more solid frameworks.

On the dance floor, EYE CONTACT! Cheeky grin, then I look away. Next time I see her (she’d gravitate around me) – stare down, circle, taunt, then pull away. She’d come close, I’d pull her in, push her away. Then I’d get back to dancing with whoever I was dancing with first. This is a common pattern I find myself doing on the dancefloor. If I see them off the dancefloor, I may chat.
The common factor I see with the girls I’ve been with/seeing, is that I didn’t say much. Just mundane chitchat that they agreed with. A laugh here and there. BOOM. Next gear, sexualizing the convo. Her lips/laugh/breasts whatever I find sexy. This is where Aarons video about eye contact is just gold. Solid gaze. BOOM – make out.

Previously I’d talk about LIFE. PASSIONS. BULLCRAP. Arghhh. What a waste of time.

What I think now when I see a girl “I ain’t here to get to know you – maybe later, but right now I’m here to hook up”

NOT getting results? You probably ain’t with TDD. At least I wasn’t

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COC 3-6 CUMULATIVE REVIEW – Smurf

Hey Guys,

Dirty Smurf here. As I write this review, I’m blasting “Big Pimpin” by Jay-Z. One of my favorite songs. Also some sort of victory ritual which I’ve been doing lately after success or a step forward in my 24/7 lifestyle. So today, I’m going to tell you about the CoC series and how listening to them has helped clear my head and upped my big pimpin’ skills. Here goes…

CoC 3: Online Strategies For The 24/7 Attractive Man by Troy
What I’ve Learned: I thought this was quite an interesting CoC. In today’s world with all the social networking going on, you’d have to be a real CHODE to ignore it.

Troy breaks it down for you so that you don’t have to do much thinking. It’s pretty much a formula. If you follow it, you will get results. Some of the things I’ve learned have helped me get that extra “oomph” so that my Facebook and Myspace profiles become that much more interesting (Imagine how one small detail can affect a woman’s thoughts and consequently her overall impression of you!). This is especially useful for all you travelers because it guarantees you’ll have fun on that next trip to [insert amazing city name here]. For those of you who don’t really feel the need to travel far, this CoC still has you covered. Have a favorite local haunt? Well after hearing what Troy has to say on this, you can get to know more people with a shared interest in the venue from the comfort of your own home.

CoC 4: Solid Self Knowledge by Aaron Dan
What I’ve Learned: Ahhh Aaron Dan. The Nice Guy With Game explains the keys to having a solid self knowledge. You’ll get a lot out of this one if you’re lost and haven’t figured out where your life is going or if you haven’t figured out who you are! Being aware of your strengths and weaknesses is very important when it comes to having game. Why? Well if you know yourself and what you’re capable of, you decide your OWN value and nobody can say anything to change that. If you think you’re THE SHIT and nobody can tell you otherwise, guess what…Goodbye Approach Anxiety!! It also makes you man up and grow some balls and deal with your life. Think you’re too shy? Well don’t just sit there, do something about it. The point of this CoC is to show you how to get to the point where you can maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses or to have a better understanding of yourself to build a strong inner game foundation.

CoC 5: Become A Conversation Master by Troy
What I’ve Learned: This CoC helped me out the most. I remember when I first got into TDD I’d always made the mistake of being the guy that plays the conversation game. You know that one? The one where you ask a question and wait for a reply and then ask another question? The conversational ball pass? Well after listening to this, I had a big A-HA! moment and understood where I was going wrong. In fact, I use what I learned in this CoC with almost all the conversations I have no matter who I’m talking to. It helped me have a definite direction in my conversations so that I lead and get to the outcome I wanted. (Read on in the FR below to see how I got things sexual with a girl and managed to get a makeout 15 minutes later!!) If you feel that you’re already good at conversations, think again. There’s the normal way of having a conversation (which leaves a lot to chance really…) and then there’s the TDD way of having a conversation (which definitely minimizes how much is left to chance and directs the conversation to where YOU want it to go).

CoC 6: The Fine Art Of Foreshadowing by Troy
What I’ve Learned: The ULTIMATE KEY to taking your seductions to the next level. Foreshadowing is definitely one of the most important parts of the TDD Seducer’s arsenal. With this, you can say goodbye to flakes and say hello to more pussy. Why? Well by using this simple but precise technique you’ll be able to capture her imagination of all the fun things you two can do together and actually get her in a positive state before you even meet up with her again! This technique is something I always make sure to use whenever I plan to meet up with a girl. Not only does it increase your chances of getting her to commit to the plans, but when used correctly it will attract her more because you are leading her (and as we know…chicks just love to be led). Do Not Miss This One!

So now that I’ve told you what’s useful in those CoCs, it’s time to show you how I used what I learned to get some REAL results…

Today was a good start to the week. Why? Well Troy always talks about getting results with TDD and today, it all just clicked and I finally understood how his method works. Let’s start with the beginning…

I’m new to California (and the whole country as a matter of fact) and I don’t really know that many people over here apart from relatives and friends from my previous school in Asia who happened to reside here to pursue their degrees in US Universities. Not only that, but I have NO steady source of income …at all (by income I mean a fucking salary or wages or whatever you’d like to call it). The only money I get is a small allowance of $50 a month for spending on whatever I want. I can’t work because my international student visa won’t allow me to work until I’ve been studying in the US for a year. To top it all off, I live with a relative who has been kind enough to offer to take care of me while I’m in college. Now I’m not complaining or anything (in fact I’m quite grateful for being able to even study abroad) but if you guys notice, that’s not exactly a winning formula for getting some nookie from the bitches. You’re probably thinking what I was thinking when I first got here…A guy with 50 bucks a month who lives with his aunt and has no friends surely can’t get any ass unless he spends his monthly income on it right? Well boys, I’m glad to say that anything is possible. What did I do? Well it’s pretty simple. I spent 20 bucks on 2 packs of cigarettes and the other 30 bucks on CoCs. The result? Today, not only do I have girls interested in me (in the country and overseas) but I also manage to still get some nookie! *Crowd goes wild*

This afternoon I met up with one of the girls from my pipeline. Let’s call her RichBitch. The first time I laid eyes on RichBitch, was about three weeks ago when I was doing summer classes at my college. I’m a smoker and I usually have some smoking buddies I hangout with during breaks and one of them is a guy who I used to have History classes with. Let’s call him Diver. Diver was taking french classes for the summer and I was taking math classes so the only time we ever hung out was during our smoking breaks (which coincidentally happened at the same time even though they were different classes). One day, towards the end of the summer classes as I was passing by Diver’s french class I noticed a hottie looking out the window. For one second as I walked by, our eyes met. That hottie….was RichBitch. I didn’t know it at the time, but those eyes would be staring down at my crotch a few weeks later. HA! How’s that for a plot twist?! Ok all kidding aside, when I saw her I knew I had to get to know her. Since she was in Diver’s french class, I decided to go ask him whether he knew her the next day over a smoke just outside the french class. The next day I asked him and he said he knew her and the conversation ended with him agreeing to introduce RichBitch to me (Hehe CoC 5 helped).

You know how smoking is a social thing? Well I took advantage of it. So next time Diver and I went for a smoke, he invited her too. When he first introduced me, I made sure I had most of my non verbals down. This included swagger walking up to her, shaking hands and holding it for a moment longer than normal and using a bit of Aaron Dan’s Eye Contact technique with a bit of a smirk. I just played it cool and talked to her for a bit finding common connects (Again…listen to CoC5) and focusing on eye contact. I wasn’t really able to do much talking the first time because midway one of my other girls called and after talking to her briefly I had to get back to class. I told RichBitch I’d see her the next day and I might even let her try an awesome new korean cigarette one of my friends was going to give me and some other random roleplaying event I made up on the spot (yep foreshadowing, bitches!) and she agreed with enthusiasm. At this point I wasn’t sure whether the foreshadowing did the trick or the fact that Korean Smokes get girls, but on hindsight, it was definitely the foreshadowing.

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