Hey guys, this is Spunk reporting in from the sunny island of singapore. a little background about me since this is my first post:
I’m currently 21 years old this year, currently in the National Service. my background with women – had always been ending up in the “lets just be friends zone” during my school years. Never had a long term relationship before (although girls always tell me that i will make a perfect boyfriend, which sounds totally bullshit to me). got to know of “The Game” about a year back, but i never really did anything about it until like this year, after attending some seminars held by troy, xavier, and hanging out with the crew guys like Val and Jiron, that i’ve decided to get this aspect of my life handled. I want to be THAT guy that all the girls craved and all the guys want to be. Got myself CoC only like about 2 weeks back – and look at what i’ve gotten myself into, lol. so, here goes.
2 weeks back when I was having fun on the dance floor with one of my homies, this group of mixed set (Chinese Chick, Aussie Girl, Pinoy Girl & Gay Guy) came on the dance floor to party. seeing that GG was giving most of his attention to CC, I decided to jump right in the set to ‘rescue’ cute AG and PG from boredom. switching between fun and sexual vibes, leading the dance, sexual stare downs, steady eye contacts – was basically how it went down on the dance floor for both the girls. Knowing that i had to take things to the next level, I tried to go in for a makeout with the AG (my target). however, I got denied of that and after which, things just went downhill from there. since the mood was getting stagnant, i decided to leave the venue and call it a day (lead or leave). On my way back home, I actually got a text saying:
“hey, we danced back in the club, you were hot, AG”. i actually got number closed by the AG after leaving the venue (which i was lucky as my homie stayed around). i foreshadowed for our next meet sexually, by letting her know that things will be taken to the next level.
a week later, we met up again in the same club (despite the fact that she told me she wasn’t coming down and she showed up nevertheless) and this time, the dance with her was further sexualized compared to the first one (jiron gave me some valuable tips on that). however, when going for the makeout, i failed AGAIN! this pissed me off (which took out the fun vibe in me) and i was wondering wth i was not doing right. when her gang were chilling at the smoking area, i went in and tried to pull her away from her friends instead of making allies with all of them (at that point of them which i didn’t realize at all). as you guys guessed it – i went home empty handed again, thinking that all hopes were lost.
so, 2 days back, I was back in the same club rolling with the new crew (TDD MC BATCH!). having dropped a simple text to her during the midweek to let her know that I’ll be there, i told myself that i was there to enjoy myself and will not let ANYTHING else affect me (it’s either i DO (have fun there) or DIE (leave feeling unhappy)). The music that night was awesome, the crowd was crazy, right when everyone was rocking to the live band, i saw my target with her friends across the dance floor. this time, since i already had dance floor LoS on us (james, jiron and me were surrounded by like 3 different groups of girls), i decided to taunt her across the dance floor by motioning to her to get to me (which she eventually did, although not immediately). during that period, a creepy indian mofo popped up beside me, and was just standing on the dance floor, literally staring at this cute indian girl who was dancing in front of me. seeing how freaked out her group and her was, I jumped in right in between the girl and the mofo, creating a barrier between them and edged the ladies to HAVE FUN. The moment I did that, the ladies cheer in joy and I went on to dance with the indian girl that I “saved” (imagine the amount of LoS i got LOL). after that set left the dance floor, i went back to look for AG and we got down to the dance. it wasn’t entirely smooth sailing there but eventually, we made out on the dance floor (her friends weren’t around at that time). After which i pulled her out of the club to a quiet spot where we made out even more.
me: “you know what, it’s uncomfortable here, lets go over to your place” her: “alright”
And the rest was history…
Things that I’ve learned from this:
1. WOMEN WANT MEN (got to nail this mindset down, even if they seem like they didn’t want it, come on, they really do)
2. Girls do not want to look easy (up till the point when i was making out with her on her bed, she kept telling me she’s not gonna have sex with me – of course she wants it!)
3. Handle her friends, make them your ALLIES, when they like you enough, they will leave you alone.
4. Do not get affected by their reactions (I AM THE ROCK SOLID, 24/7 ATTRACTIVE MAN)
5. DO OR DIE!!! (CoC 7 is fucking awesome)
Thanks to my crew (TDD MC batch – james ken derrick wilson), being there and out in the field made a difference, jiron who has been mentoring me closely, val who taught me how to move on the dance floor, xav for his workshops (this guy’s my fucking role model, just that we don’t hang out enough, damn!) and Troy of course (need i say more?)
This is only the beginning guys…
Signing off
Victor / Spunk