By Adam, Texas
About me:
I’m 24, and several years out of college. The past couple of years while trying to find a job, I’ve completely put my social life by the wayside, yet now that I have recently found my dream job I’m ready to become that social monster and ladies man that I always wanted to be. During college I had many great friends by being the warm, friendly gentleman, yet women never really saw me as a potential romantic partner, which was one of the areas I wanted to improve during the PI. Another huge sticking point for me was being able to have a conversation after meeting a complete stranger and not having it completely fizzle out after about a minute.
Why I Took a PI with Aaron:
I selected Aaron as my instructor because I believed his personality and style would be a great fit or mine, and that certainly was the case. For weeks before the PI, we talked frequently over the phone, with Aaron gathering details of my life so he could customize the instruction especially to me. He also lectured over the essential philosophies of TDD for social interactions, so that the actual time spent with him in person could be used most efficiently for instruction on non-verbal techniques.
First Night of the PI:
Our first night out I was completely blown away by what I experienced. Now during college, I was always a house party type guy and this was my first experience in a night venue, so needless to say when I first arrived I was a little overwhelmed. In my first interaction I approached in a half-assed way, and I was blown out. Both Tim and Aaron pointed out that I MUST commit! From this point, I worked on approaching with a committed vibe while working to further my conversational skills as far as possible. At first I was having trouble leading conversations, until Aaron pointed out that I should simply concentrate on listening. This was huge for getting “out of my head”, and in interactions afterwards I made some huge improvements. The biggest eye-opener was having Aaron right by my side to demonstrate when my interactions started to fizzle out. He is an absolute beast; he’s more of a natural than someone with contrived game, just a great guy with some killer techniques and non-verbals sprinkled on the side. This is something that you can not just read about, you just have to have it revealed in the field for it to totally sink in.
Second Night of the PI:
I made huge breakthroughs Saturday night. A big key for me was by before going out, just getting myself in a nice positive frame mind that “I was going to have fun tonight and meet some new friends.” After going over dance game, we meet up with Troy at this bar. After the guys demonstrate using LOS concepts, I approach a bachelorette party and the interaction just went great from there. After chatting for a good while, I bring Aaron over yet Troy comes in and points out that there are more groups within the group that are just waiting to be approached, so I engage them and after having a great conversations, I leave on the high points. This breakthrough was huge for me, compared to the point from where I started. This pretty much got me over the fear I had of talking to women who are complete strangers. After this we bounced over to a dance club, which was another first-time experience for me. I practiced the dance-game we worked on, while also having Aaron, Tim, and Troy demonstrate. Again, seeing these techniques in the field is huge. Eventually, all the new experiences and the revelations I received, along with being in club environment for the first time became too much, and I felt like I hit a proverbial wall, so we headed out and for our post-night briefing.
Sunday Debrief Session:
On Sunday, Aaron synthesized everything I learned during the weekend, and most importantly, how to build it into my life. I cannot recommend Aaron highly enough, he’s a proof that you can be more of a low-key, nice, gentleman-type guy and still have amazing success with women by using some basic TDD concepts and having a sexy edge. Since the PI, I’ve been working on skills in baby-steps, getting into as much social situations as I can find, and I’ve made huge breakthroughs with conversations with strangers. The next step with me is moving on to escalating interactions with women to a romantic outcome, and I’m getting there. I would like to point out that this system is best learned by revelation in the field, and if you had ever considered taking some live instruction from TDD, even if you are a complete beginner, then trust me, TAKE THE PLUNGE AND DO IT, it is well worth the cost!
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